| There is a male sort of loneliness that adheres in programming. It's nothing like women's loneliness, which might be assuaged by visits and talk and telephone calls, and interrupting sort of interaction that might come anytime...programmer loneliness does not interrupt. The need for concentration forbids it.... Fifteen years of programming, and I'm used to the silence. I've become accustomed to the small companionships of clicking keys, whirring fans and white nose. Fifteen years of programming, and I've finally learned to take my loneliness like a man (3-4). |